So I've been having an issue where, when I attempt to join my server, it loads for a bit and then disconnects and says that I could not connect to the server. Then, there will be times when I can join for a few seconds before being disconnected. This issue isn't happening to anyone else on the server, there's someone on it right now. I've verified my game files, made sure the program is allowed through my firewall, made sure my modlist matches, and have dropped my graphics down to the bare minimum and it still happens. So far I've only been able to play on my server twice without it crashing or kicking me. I'm able to play single player or co op perfectly fine, this just happens whenever I try to join online.
Is there any fix to this? I haven't been able to find answers anywhere else.